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How Can a Tree Help Us Stay Connected to Someone We Miss?

Warren Roberts
November 13, 2025

Losing someone we love creates a quiet space inside us, a place where memories settle and stay. Across Australia, more families are discovering a gentle and meaningful way to honour those memories. They are planting trees as living memorials. These trees do more than represent a life lived. They continue to grow, bloom, and change, reminding us that love does not disappear. It simply takes a new form rooted in the world around us.

The Deep Meaning Behind Memorial Trees

the old couple smiling when pre-planing at mornington green

Trees have always carried a sense of resilience and connection. Through every season, they tell a story. Spring brings new buds and a feeling of renewal. Summer offers shade and comfort. Autumn adds colour and reflection. Underground, the roots hold steady. When a tree is planted to honour someone, it becomes a symbol of both continuity and presence. It stands as a reminder that even in loss, something living still grows.

This idea resonates across Australia. Since 2020, natural burial grounds have more than doubled, with a 45 percent increase in families choosing eco-friendly memorials such as living trees instead of traditional graves or cremations. The shift reflects a desire for memorials that feel peaceful, personal, and connected to nature.

Choosing the Right Tree for Australia’s Landscape

choosing the right tree for australia's landscape

Because Australia has such varied climates, choosing the right tree and the right planting season makes a significant difference. Native species like Golden Wattle, Jacaranda, and Flame Tree are often chosen for their cultural importance and their ability to thrive in local conditions.

In southern regions, autumn and early winter offer the best window for planting since cooler, wetter months help young roots establish before the heat arrives. In northern areas with tropical climates, late dry season and early wet season planting gives trees the gentle start they need without overwhelming them with heavy rains too early.

Many families appreciate having expert guidance during this process. Natasha Brauer shared, “Traditional cemeteries felt sad and distant, so when I found Mornington Green’s botanical garden setting, it felt just right, a beautiful, natural place where my son’s memory can thrive.” 

Her experience reflects how thoughtful species choice and proper timing help each memorial tree grow into a vibrant tribute.

Read more: The New Australian Memorial – Why Gardens Are Becoming Families’ First Choice

An Affordable and Environmentally Thoughtful Farewell

An Affordable and Environmentally Thoughtful Farewell

Cost matters during difficult times, and many families want an option that feels both meaningful and manageable. A traditional funeral in Australia can exceed AUD 19,000 with burial fees and ongoing upkeep. A memorial tree typically ranges from AUD 8,000. This usually includes species selection, patented ash infusion, and lifelong care, all without hidden fees.

Alan Kent, who planted a Japanese Maple, shared, “Mornington Green gave us a beautiful site to visit our son’s tree. It has become our happy place, a peaceful spot where we feel close to him.” 

Families often find comfort knowing that a memorial tree not only honours their loved one but also supports the environment through habitat restoration and long term sustainability.

How Trees Help Clean the Air

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Trees play a quiet but powerful role in protecting our environment. They naturally draw carbon dioxide (CO2) from the air and store it within their trunks, branches, and roots. This simple act helps slow the effects of climate change by keeping CO2 out of the atmosphere.

Research from the Birmingham Institute of Forest Research (BIFoR FACE) has revealed something remarkable. Mature oak forests exposed to the CO2 levels expected in the future actually adjust by increasing the amount of carbon they absorb. This real-world experiment demonstrates just how important established woodlands are in capturing carbon and helping reduce global warming.

Around the world, mature trees take in between 20 and 40 kilograms (44 to 88 pounds) of CO2 every year. The exact amount varies depending on the tree species and the conditions they grow in. This absorption process supports healthier soils, stronger ecosystems, and a more stable climate overall.

As CO2 levels continue to rise, on-the-ground studies confirm that mature trees respond by absorbing even more carbon. Their ability to adapt makes them essential allies in addressing climate change.

Choosing a living memorial tree gives families a meaningful way to honour a loved one while also contributing something valuable to the planet. It becomes both a personal tribute and a lasting gift to the environment.

Healing Through Nature

People often return to their memorial tree for comfort, reflection, and connection. Visits become meaningful rituals that support healing. 

Karen Howell shared, “The kindness and warmth we felt during my mum’s tree planting made all the difference. The tree grows, and so does our love and memory.” 

Many psychologists note that being in nature can ease grief and help families navigate loss with greater peace.

A Living Legacy for Generations

A Living Legacy for Generations

More than thirty natural memorial sites across Australia now protect and care for these trees. These spaces invite families to visit, celebrate, and reflect, offering a gentle reminder that while life changes, love continues.

If you feel drawn to this kind of tribute, Mornington Green Legacy Gardens can help you choose a memorial tree that reflects the spirit of your loved one and grows harmoniously within the Australian landscape.

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